Say, Tell, or Talk? How to Choose the Right One

🔸 SAY

Use say when you’re quoting or reporting exact words.
Think of it as putting the spotlight on the message itself, not the person.

Examples:

  • She said “goodbye.”
  • He said he was busy.
  • They said it was too late.

🛑 Don’t follow it with a person alone:
Incorrect: She said me the answer.
Correct: She said the answer to me.


🔸 TELL

Use tell when you are focusing on who receives the information.
It’s all about giving someone a message or information.

Examples:

  • She told me the truth.
  • I told them to be careful.
  • Can you tell your friend to wait?

✅ Always needs a person: me, you, him, her…


🔸 TALK

Use talk when referring to the act of having a conversation or a back-and-forth discussion.

Examples:

  • We talked about the news.
  • Let’s talk tomorrow.
  • I talked to my teacher after class.

⚠ Needs prepositions like to, about, or with — no direct object!


🔁 Quick Summary

VerbUse ForNeeds a person?Example
SAYWords / statementsNo“She said it was late.”
TELLGiving information to someoneYes“She told me a secret.”
TALKConversation / communicationNo (but needs preposition)“We talked about it.”

Final Tip

Try converting the sentence.
If you can quote, use say.
If you need a listener, use tell.
If it’s a chat, use talk.